12 Facts to Happiness!

August 08, 2020

Quest for Happiness

Happiness is that elusive angel, who evades me when I chase her and settles on when least expected. Happiness is the best gift one can give to anyone. Real happiness manifests itself more from within. It is the way of experiencing the emotion with meaningful contented depth rather than loud laugh and grin. It is the smile that begins in the soul and then invades the eyes.

Happiness a State of the mind

Happiness is completely the state of mind, which is responsible for our happiness. A happy person is not the one who is without problems, but just one who learned to deal with them. Even in the same conditions, we experience different feelings on the basis of your state of the mind.

Comparison, the biggest enemy of Happiness

Comparing ourselves with others is the biggest mistake we make. It is the biggest enemy of your happiness. The only way ahead is to get ahead of yourself and try to become better with each step.

Be true to yourself to gain Happiness

Always be true to yourself to avoid regret and guilt. Don’t put pressure on yourself what others think about you. If you are not doing your best, it will create the path to happiness.

Spread the happiness to remain happy

When one loves, s/he is loved back. Loving people, nature, and the work you do will be the main source of happiness.

Take other’s success with positivity

Sometimes when we see the growth or success of someone especially if that one is your close friend or relative or we see someone at that success level where you wanted to see yourself but couldn’t achieve that.

Once one of my close friends was upset because someone launched a startup and got funding and remain disturbed because he wanted to do something like that. If we look around we will find several such examples. Only your mindset snatches your happiness and beautiful moment of your life.

Take other’s success with a positive attitude and share and enjoy those happy moments with your friends or relative. Believe it, being happy with other’s growth will create the path of success in your life, and being sad with other’s success will only destroy your internal peace and joy.

Start giving, happiness will follow

Helping others will engulf you in extreme joy. Helping doesn’t mean only financial help, there are several ways of helping others. The most important thing is to put your best effort into bringing a smile on other’s faces and don’t expect anything in return.

Don’t do anything with some expectation

Expectations fetch grief. Do everything in your life without expectation. If you do something with expectation and that remain unfulfilled, we put ourselves in utter distress. Actual happiness comes if you do something because you actually want to do for your internal satisfaction. You will always be happy.

Live in Present

The best way of being happy to live every moment of life without bothering about your future. Nobody knows what will originate from the womb of the future, whether it is good or bad, we can’t change. So leave it in the hands of the future and enjoy the present.

Connect to yourself

One is happiest when deeply connected to oneself. Learn the things, the moments, the people who make you happy. It is possible only when you know yourself and deeply connected with your soul.

Find the moment of elation

Since life is not so kind as to keep us all in a constant state of bliss, so it’s left to each individual to invent and look for his moments of elation. Sometimes the chirping of birds and showers of rain can immerse you in the pool of happiness. Some happy conversations with your friend and walk into nature or melodious music can create extreme happiness. It’s up to each individual to seek his/her moment of happiness.

Learn to take “good & bad” in your stride

With each passing year in life, you have had your share of emotion-good or bad. Nobody remains always in favorable conditions. Life is a mix of favorable and unfavorable conditions. Learn to take them in your stride, you realize that come what may, life carries on. Life finds its level and somehow gains its balance.

Stay happy !!!!