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Why Forgetting is Essential for the Mind

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  The Gift We Often Misunderstand: Learning the Value of Forgetting When I was a child, I used to have a simple yet powerful wish —  I wish I could remember everything. Every book I read, every scene I saw, every word I heard… I wanted it all to be permanently imprinted in my mind, like ink on paper that never fades. In my innocent understanding, memory was the ultimate superpower. I believed that if I never forgot anything, I would naturally become the most intelligent person — excelling in studies, performing brilliantly in every field, and always staying ahead. Back then, forgetting felt like a flaw. A limitation. Something that held me back. But life has a way of gently, and sometimes painfully, correcting our assumptions. The Design Beyond Our Understanding As we grow, we slowly begin to realize that life is not as linear as we once imagined. There is a deeper intelligence at work — a design so intricate that we often fail to comprehend it in our early years. We question ...

Nothing Is Random: Understanding the Divine Design of the Universe

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 At a certain stage in my life, I arrived at a profound realization: nothing in this universe happens by chance. Every moment, every event, unfolds according to a divine design, perfectly timed and deeply purposeful. This awakening stirred many questions within me. The universe is boundless, teeming with innumerable forms of life—how can every occurrence be guided with such flawless precision? As I contemplated this mystery, my inner consciousness offered a simple yet powerful insight. If human beings can design and manage vast, complex systems—factories where thousands of processes operate automatically with the help of machines—then how effortless must it be for the Divine Intelligence that created the human mind itself? The Creator who fashioned such extraordinary complexity surely governs the universe with even greater mastery. Gradually, I began to perceive the universe as a sacred, self-operating system—an immense, perfectly synchronized mechanism. Planets, stars, and galaxie...

Is Everything Fixed in Life?

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  Does this question ever arise in your mind? For me, yes—many times. There are moments when I wonder why certain things never happened despite my efforts, while on the other hand, some events unfolded in ways I could have never imagined. Life seems to move at its own pace and in its own mysterious way. We are merely participants in this grand play, performing the tasks that come our way.                                                     Often, we live under the illusion that we are in control—believing that we are the doers, the planners, the decision-makers. But when you look deeper, it feels as though everything is happening by itself, governed by an invisible force —a supreme power that silently organizes every event in this world. Once you truly understand and accept this fact, two perspectives naturally emerge. First , when you start realizing t...

The Blessing Called Daughter

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  Being the mother of a daughter is one of life’s greatest blessings, and I truly feel like the luckiest person in the world to have you in my life. When I look at you, I see nothing less than God’s most precious gift to me—a reflection of love, grace, and endless joy.                                                   From the day you were born, you have filled my world with smiles, laughter, and a happiness beyond measure. You are the reason my heart overflows with love and the one who makes me forget every sorrow with just your presence. Watching you grow into the beautiful young woman you are today has been the most rewarding journey of my life. You are not only my daughter but also my closest friend, the one with whom I can share anything without hesitation.                             ...

State of Mind shapes our life

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  Our state of mind plays the most important role in shaping our lives. The mind is like a double-edged sword – when it is in our control, it becomes our best friend, guiding us towards growth, peace, and happiness. But when it is restless, negative, or uncontrolled, it can turn into our worst enemy, trapping us in stress, fear, and unhappiness. A person with the right state of mind can face even the toughest challenges of life with courage and ease. On the other hand, a disturbed mind makes even small difficulties seem impossible. Therefore, learning to keep the mind in its best state is the true art of living. How to Keep the Mind in the Best State for a Happy Life Write Daily Gratitude Note                                                                                    ...